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Grace_R

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Vibes or fingers?

Something I’ve been curious about for a while… those who come here to watch, do you have a preference between whether a model uses a vibrator or her fingers?

I’m a big fan of the natural style here - so I love that we see models masturbating using whatever they usually do. That said though… I’ve found myself gravitating to vids where they use fingers recently and it got me thinking.

MS2020

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

I don't know that I actually have a preference in that regard. While I can relate more to watching masturbating with fingers, either one can be really good. Just as long it's well shot and the person feels like they're acting naturally.

If you don't mind me asking, did you watch that many videos before you started posting or only later?

Grace_R

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

I don't know that I actually have a preference in that regard. While I can relate more to watching masturbating with fingers, either one can be really good. Just as long it's well shot and the person feels like they're acting naturally.

If you don't mind me asking, did you watch that many videos before you started posting or only later?

Makes sense!!
I started posting in 2015 (?) I think, and i definitely didn’t watch any then. I hadn’t really realised there was a porn industry like this that existed then.
Once I started doing more IFM/diary/BA shoots I started checking out what other people on here were doing and what about it turned me on. And found my faves

 
I’ve recently got back into watching way more regularly in the last month. Maybe once a day haha

privignus

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Both can be fun!  I like the very intense visible response that vibrators can bring, but also seeing all the ways contributors touch themselves or hump things to feel good!  Before the Internet how many people got to see so women getting themselves off in so many different ways?

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Res est arduissima vincere naturam,
in aspectu virginis mentem esse puram

tuboman81

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Something I’ve been curious about for a while… those who come here to watch, do you have a preference between whether a model uses a vibrator or her fingers?

I’m a big fan of the natural style here - so I love that we see models masturbating using whatever they usually do. That said though… I’ve found myself gravitating to vids where they use fingers recently and it got me thinking.

I am not sure why... maybe because the earliest videos I saw were mostly with just fingers, but I prefer the "natural style" as you call it I have grown more to enjoy videos with vibrators as I have gotten older. I think with just fingers it feels more intimate in some way?? Like you don't have the noise of the vibrator drowning out the sighs and moans, or the wet sounds as she gets more aroused.

Hangdog90

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Something I’ve been curious about for a while… those who come here to watch, do you have a preference between whether a model uses a vibrator or her fingers?

I’m a big fan of the natural style here - so I love that we see models masturbating using whatever they usually do. That said though… I’ve found myself gravitating to vids where they use fingers recently and it got me thinking.

Sometimes the noise made by toys can be a distraction (see Comparative Size 1 this week, in which an old vibrator design is featured), but I agree that it is good to see the models masturbate the way they would in private. Toy design has been revolutionised in the 21st century and there are so many that are beautiful to look at as well as effective at arousing the women using them.

One of my favourite scenes here involved the use of toys: Celine_H Up Close 4.

Another is Biker's High by Lucy_P.

Have a look at them and tell me what you think!

Last edited by Hangdog90 (19-04-24 17:11:28)

BadSeed

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

I had never thought about it before, but upon reflection I realized that I definitely prefer fingers.  I find it more intimate and sensual particularly when the fingers are very wet and there is deep penetration.  Perhaps it reminds me of fingering a partner and therefore stirs up good memories.

alsbosilver

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Nice topic for discussion, Grace!!!
For my part, I much prefer masturbation with fingers because there's a fundamental element in life which is rhythm...
Orgasm has to be earned, it doesn't come from nothing and you have to work for it... As a musician (pianist), I always pay close attention to hands and fingers... I like to see, and sometimes hear, this regular rhythm of coming and going, like a clock that leads ineluctably to pleasure... I especially like it when women make fast, very fast movements, sometimes like vibrations on their clitoris, cut off their breathing and tense up to bring on the orgasm, and then let go, like a bow that has shot its arrow.

Christian (France)

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Hangdog90

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Nice topic for discussion, Grace!!!
For my part, I much prefer masturbation with fingers because there's a fundamental element in life which is rhythm...
Orgasm has to be earned, it doesn't come from nothing and you have to work for it... As a musician (pianist), I always pay close attention to hands and fingers... I like to see, and sometimes hear, this regular rhythm of coming and going, like a clock that leads ineluctably to pleasure... I especially like it when women make fast, very fast movements, sometimes like vibrations on their clitoris, cut off their breathing and tense up to bring on the orgasm, and then let go, like a bow that has shot its arrow.

Christian (France)

Beautifully described

Speaking of piano, this Keith Jarrett tune has the perfect title for an IFM studio recording, and a nice duration too:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7kCoBkOj3c

Last edited by Hangdog90 (20-04-24 14:18:01)

color1876

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Fingers. 100%. To me a woman actually touching herself directly is much, much more erotic than using a device. I  usually stop watching videos when a woman picks up a toy. I get that that can feel better for her -- and I value above all else about ifm that it is a place where women do what they want to do. So I'm conceptually fully onboard about any and every woman doing what she wants to do. But in terms of what actually turns me on, it's the personal touch that does it.

Grace_R

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Nice topic for discussion, Grace!!!
For my part, I much prefer masturbation with fingers because there's a fundamental element in life which is rhythm...
Orgasm has to be earned, it doesn't come from nothing and you have to work for it... As a musician (pianist), I always pay close attention to hands and fingers... I like to see, and sometimes hear, this regular rhythm of coming and going, like a clock that leads ineluctably to pleasure... I especially like it when women make fast, very fast movements, sometimes like vibrations on their clitoris, cut off their breathing and tense up to bring on the orgasm, and then let go, like a bow that has shot its arrow.

Christian (France)

This is so nicely put!! And really resonates with me.. I think you do get more of that rhythm when a model's using her hands.

alsbosilver

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Registered: 15-07-19

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Nice topic for discussion, Grace!!!
For my part, I much prefer masturbation with fingers because there's a fundamental element in life which is rhythm...
Orgasm has to be earned, it doesn't come from nothing and you have to work for it... As a musician (pianist), I always pay close attention to hands and fingers... I like to see, and sometimes hear, this regular rhythm of coming and going, like a clock that leads ineluctably to pleasure... I especially like it when women make fast, very fast movements, sometimes like vibrations on their clitoris, cut off their breathing and tense up to bring on the orgasm, and then let go, like a bow that has shot its arrow.

Christian (France)

Beautifully described

Speaking of piano, this Keith Jarrett tune has the perfect title for an IFM studio recording, and a nice duration too:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7kCoBkOj3c

Oh absolutly !!

alsbosilver

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Registered: 15-07-19

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Nice topic for discussion, Grace!!!
For my part, I much prefer masturbation with fingers because there's a fundamental element in life which is rhythm...
Orgasm has to be earned, it doesn't come from nothing and you have to work for it... As a musician (pianist), I always pay close attention to hands and fingers... I like to see, and sometimes hear, this regular rhythm of coming and going, like a clock that leads ineluctably to pleasure... I especially like it when women make fast, very fast movements, sometimes like vibrations on their clitoris, cut off their breathing and tense up to bring on the orgasm, and then let go, like a bow that has shot its arrow.

Christian (France)

This is so nicely put!! And really resonates with me.. I think you do get more of that rhythm when a model's using her hands.

You are so pretty, Grace!! Thank you for showing us your masturbations... The main thing is that you do yourself a lot of good!

Grace_R

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From: Melbourne

Registered: 19-05-22

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Something I’ve been curious about for a while… those who come here to watch, do you have a preference between whether a model uses a vibrator or her fingers?

I’m a big fan of the natural style here - so I love that we see models masturbating using whatever they usually do. That said though… I’ve found myself gravitating to vids where they use fingers recently and it got me thinking.

Sometimes the noise made by toys can be a distraction (see Comparative Size 1 this week, in which an old vibrator design is featured), but I agree that it is good to see the models masturbate the way they would in private. Toy design has been revolutionised in the 21st century and there are so many that are beautiful to look at as well as effective at arousing the women using them.

One of my favourite scenes here involved the use of toys: Celine_H Up Close 4.

Another is Biker's High by Lucy_P.

Have a look at them and tell me what you think!

Oooof some good recs there.

I must confess I sometimes watch the vibrator ones purely for research - I like seeing what toys other people use

tuboman81

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Registered: 05-04-22

Posts: 106

Re: Vibes or fingers?

Something I’ve been curious about for a while… those who come here to watch, do you have a preference between whether a model uses a vibrator or her fingers?

I’m a big fan of the natural style here - so I love that we see models masturbating using whatever they usually do. That said though… I’ve found myself gravitating to vids where they use fingers recently and it got me thinking.

Sometimes the noise made by toys can be a distraction (see Comparative Size 1 this week, in which an old vibrator design is featured), but I agree that it is good to see the models masturbate the way they would in private. Toy design has been revolutionised in the 21st century and there are so many that are beautiful to look at as well as effective at arousing the women using them.

One of my favourite scenes here involved the use of toys: Celine_H Up Close 4.

Another is Biker's High by Lucy_P.

Have a look at them and tell me what you think!

Oooof some good recs there.

I must confess I sometimes watch the vibrator ones purely for research - I like seeing what toys other people use

I have always looked at IFM as part pleasure and part research When I 1st started watching as a young man I wanted to know what I could do to hopefully help please a woman one day... I've been a fan of IFM for almost 20 years and I am still learning new things!!

Grace_R

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Registered: 19-05-22

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Nice topic for discussion, Grace!!!
For my part, I much prefer masturbation with fingers because there's a fundamental element in life which is rhythm...
Orgasm has to be earned, it doesn't come from nothing and you have to work for it... As a musician (pianist), I always pay close attention to hands and fingers... I like to see, and sometimes hear, this regular rhythm of coming and going, like a clock that leads ineluctably to pleasure... I especially like it when women make fast, very fast movements, sometimes like vibrations on their clitoris, cut off their breathing and tense up to bring on the orgasm, and then let go, like a bow that has shot its arrow.

Christian (France)

This is so nicely put!! And really resonates with me.. I think you do get more of that rhythm when a model's using her hands.

You are so pretty, Grace!! Thank you for showing us your masturbations... The main thing is that you do yourself a lot of good!

Thankyou!! ??

MS2020

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

I must admit Grace, it does impress me the sheer number of tools women and girls have been know to apply for masturbating. Even if I never felt inclined to use anything more complex than running water or certain fabrics against the body, there has long been something intriguing (even a little exciting) to read about all the things that can bring someone with a clitoris to orgasm. Arm chairs, climbing pools, markers, teddy bears, pillows, washing machines and cucumber just to name a few.

Sure some methods have sounded too unsafe or unsanitary (not the ones I listed about though), but with anything else I find it nice to see such method on display at IFM. Just because it brings the stories to life when you see it happen and it doesn't feel stagy.

Last edited by MS2020 (26-04-24 16:18:29)

alsbosilver

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

We can really thank Grace warmly for responding to our comments and establishing a real connection with those who admire her and like to see her masturbate... It's so rare!!

Christian (France)

Grace_R

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

I must admit Grace, it does impress me the sheer number of tools women and girls have been know to apply for masturbating. Even if I never felt inclined to use anything more complex than running water or certain fabrics against the body, there has long been something intriguing (even a little exciting) to read about all the things that can bring someone with a clitoris to orgasm. Arm chairs, climbing pools, markers, teddy bears, pillows, washing machines and cucumber just to name a few.

Sure some methods have sounded to unsafe or unsanitary (not the ones I listed about though), but with anything else I find it nice to see such method on display at IFM. Just because it brings the stories to life when you see it happen and it doesn't feel stagy.

100%. Us gals are pretty crafty when it comes to cumming. I love that IFM shows this too - and shows just how many different preferences and styles for toys and masturbating there are

Grace_R

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

We can really thank Grace warmly for responding to our comments and establishing a real connection with those who admire her and like to see her masturbate... It's so rare!!

Christian (France)

Pleasure!! You guys are helping with my curiosity so thanks back to you

MS2020

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Grace the question you raised here got me thinking of something else. It is possible by apply both a vibrator and fingers.

One of the things I learned from OMGYES.COM is concept of transferring vibration. Which means applying a vibrator to a limb or other handheld objects to pleasure one's self through the vibration while feeling different surfaces. The most basic example would be to place a vibrator of the back of fingers or behind the palm as you touching yourself. All sorts of other object can be used from brush handles to sea shells. One can even apply the vibrator to a penis or tongue for partner sex.

I've never seen it happen on this site though. In fact, OMGYES is the only place so far I can recall it being written about or demonstrated. In you're profile video it sound like you preferred using toys to fingers. Which made it interesting that you discovered a preference for watching the other way. Have you ever tried this method or know someone else who did?

Last edited by MS2020 (26-04-24 22:39:43)

Grace_R

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From: Melbourne

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Grace the question you raised here got me thinking of something else. It is possible by apply both a vibrator and fingers.

One of the things I learned from OMGYES.COM is concept of transferring vibration. Which means applying a vibrator to a limb or other handheld objects to pleasure one's self through the vibration while feeling different surfaces. The most basic example would be to place a vibrator of the back of fingers or behind the palm as you touching yourself. All sorts of other object can be used from brush handles to sea shells. One can even apply the vibrator to a penis or tongue for partner sex.

I've never seen it happen on this site though. In fact, OMGYES is the only place so far I can recall it being written about or demonstrated. In you're profile video it sound like you preferred using toys to fingers. Which made it interesting that you discovered a preference for watching the other way. Have you ever tried this method or know someone else who did?

Wow OMGYES. I haven’t thought/heard about this in ages!! I used it when I first started Feck - it was so great, can’t believe I forgot about it. I might try that vibration tip hehe.

Yep I do prefer toys simply because they are so efficient and I like to cum, so why not use some thing that lets me cum multiple times faster hahah. I do use fingers when the need strikes (and no noise reasons) I also love that I can have one in my pussy, one in my ass which is harder with a toy.

pole1cat

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

Hi Grace,

Thanks for your contributions to IFM and the forums. You have a joyful presence.

As to your question, I prefer fingers. I think it's amazing how much pleasure they can create.

Cheers,

polecat

Hangdog90

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Re: Vibes or fingers?

One of the things I learned from OMGYES.COM is concept of transferring vibration. Which means applying a vibrator to a limb or other handheld objects to pleasure one's self through the vibration while feeling different surfaces. The most basic example would be to place a vibrator of the back of fingers or behind the palm as you touching yourself. All sorts of other object can be used from brush handles to sea shells. One can even apply the vibrator to a penis or tongue for partner sex.

I've never seen it happen on this site though. In fact, OMGYES is the only place so far I can recall it being written about or demonstrated.

Wow OMGYES. I haven’t thought/heard about this in ages!! I used it when I first started Feck - it was so great, can’t believe I forgot about it. I might try that vibration tip hehe.

OMGYES is an awesome website. It is so empowering and such an antidote to the traditional western religious guilt paradigm that stigmatises sex for pleasure.

For me, as part of national Sex Ed programmes all over the world, OMGYES should be available to all girls as part of the curriculum and girls should be allowed to purchase and own masturbation toys from the beginning of their teens.

MS2020

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Registered: 06-11-20

Posts: 194

Re: Vibes or fingers?

Grace the question you raised here got me thinking of something else. It is possible by apply both a vibrator and fingers.

One of the things I learned from OMGYES.COM is concept of transferring vibration. Which means applying a vibrator to a limb or other handheld objects to pleasure one's self through the vibration while feeling different surfaces. The most basic example would be to place a vibrator of the back of fingers or behind the palm as you touching yourself. All sorts of other object can be used from brush handles to sea shells. One can even apply the vibrator to a penis or tongue for partner sex.

I've never seen it happen on this site though. In fact, OMGYES is the only place so far I can recall it being written about or demonstrated. In you're profile video it sound like you preferred using toys to fingers. Which made it interesting that you discovered a preference for watching the other way. Have you ever tried this method or know someone else who did?

Wow OMGYES. I haven’t thought/heard about this in ages!! I used it when I first started Feck - it was so great, can’t believe I forgot about it. I might try that vibration tip hehe.

Yep I do prefer toys simply because they are so efficient and I like to cum, so why not use some thing that lets me cum multiple times faster hahah. I do use fingers when the need strikes (and no noise reasons) I also love that I can have one in my pussy, one in my ass which is harder with a toy.

They added the third section on Toys after being online for a few years. If you haven't been there in a while that may be why you hadn't head about this before. If you still have an account, I recommend finding about this technique in more detail.